Pickup is an art, not a science, so have fun with it. It’s the height of spring, and this isn’t about pressure. If there is a science to it, I promise you no rockets are involved (even when you shoot her your Fourth of July line). One example of how to do this is to approach a babe in a humorous manner, but flirt with her as if it’s the second time you’ve met, not the first. Keep the body language loose, smile, and sexily tease her about the late trains or the great weather, or the magazine section she’s in. In your tone, imagine saying this to someone you already know, but just barely (you’re relaxed, yet mysterious).
Another thing I do is rather than focus on meeting the babe or what I’m gonna say, I just say whatever the situation or surroundings call for. Today I saw a nurse running to catch a nearby bus. From behind me, when I turned a bit, she said “I’m catching up with you.
I took the bait and said, “You’re running for the bus”. She giggled.
“And you’re pretty, too,” Another giggle.
In another circumstances, the deejay, the bartender, my friends, any topic I felt legitimately present was invoked to break the ice. No one’s gonna get killed, you’re out having fun, shopping, or taking a walk. Beautiful women will notice your cool manner, and things will take off from there. If you develop enough rapport (e.g. she’s laughing, trading barbs) then to ask for the digits, do so. But keep the mood light as babes like it, not tense.
Live The Dream,
ST
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Ever watch the new Discovery Channel series “Pitchmen”? It stars Billy Mays and Anthony Sullivan, and has lessons to teach about how one defines one’’s self, pitching yourself to beautiful women, and choosing words wisely. Check it out when you get the chance- there’s much more to it than Billy Mays screaming:
http://dsc.discovery.com/tv/pitchmen/pitchmen.html
Direct response marketing, AKA infomercials, share characteristics with meeting pretty women. With both, the less said the better, as listeners focus more on how you say it. Viewers of “Pitchmen” will note how while hosts Mays and Sullivan sometimes differ as to what should be said about a brand, the principles remain consistent. As with your personal “brand”, benefits must be clearly stated, the message must be presented in an attractive manner, and the product must be showcased. There has to be hype (what makes this item different, and how will it make my life easier).
When you approach highly valued women, you’ve gotta demonstrate, with an economy of words, what distinguishes you from all the other guys, and how much more exciting life will be once she’s met you.
Live The Dream,
ST
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How do you attract and make a first impression on a beautiful woman? Exhibit a love of life, an economy with words, and a unique wardrobe. A good t.v. series to watch to see these principles in action, is TV Land’s “The Cougar”, hosted by the aptly-named Vivica A. Fox:
http://services.tvland.com/shows/cougar/season1/index.php?id=21
Check it out Smooth Nation- spring is here.
ST
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Granted some of the science on FOX’s popular new series “Lie to Me” is of the pseudo variety. But here at PullJoy©, we’re all about the latest research, imperfect or not. One must also take into account tone, choice of words, context, motive, and relationship when attempting to decipher facial expressions. There are, however, reasons to watch the show beyond the hotness of Monica Raymund. Here are a few:
http://click.lavalife.com/relationship/feature/article/Learn-to-Read-Faces/FwRU/665207/p1
Learn a little about body and facial language, and you’ll be on your way to Smooth Nation.
Here’s the blog of a Human Lie Detector. She’s married, and delves into aspects of deception beyond the facial:
http://www.eyesforlies.blogspot.com/
ST
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Do you watch the new FOX series “Lie to Me”? That Monica Raymond is a hottie, no? An article in the Washington Post, however, says convincing another party, and establishing trust, is about body language and speech patterns long-ingrained in the human pysche. This section is informative to those who wish to speed-bond with beautiful women:
At the Massachusetts Institute of Technology’s Media Lab, researchers study the physical dynamics of human interactions. Their studies show that body language, vocal pattern and pitch are so critical to human trust that they can predict the success or failure of a sales pitch by reading body language and vocal patterns alone. They don’t even need to know what you’re saying to know if the other person is likely to trust it.
With a device called a sociometer, project director Alex Pentland detects if you are looking at the person you’re talking to, and a recorder tracks the timing, speed and inflection of speech (but not the content).
It turns out that people who use positive body language and correct vocal inflection — nodding heads in agreement, leaning forward in their chairs, speaking in the same vocal range and speed as conversational partners — will win other people’s trust.
“The background of this is our human communication from 50,000 or 100,000 years ago, when we didn’t have that many words, but were still able to communicate and coordinate very closely,” he says. “We’re still extraordinarily sensitive to socially appropriate behavior, but it’s so deeply buried that we are almost unconscious of it.”
The entire article is below:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/02/12/AR2009021204220.html?hpid=artsliving
Here at PullJoy©, we believe in better living (i.e. more beautiful companions) through science.
Live The Dream,
ST
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Always wanted that washboard waist babes adore? Chow down and crunch up:
http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/02/09/irpt.6pack.diet/index.html
Dude in the article is only 27, so his metabolism and overall health are likely pretty good. The crunches, to be honest, are highly overrated, given the fact that activities such as walking, cycling, basketball, and swimming incorporate the same muscles, and place less strain on one’s back.
Truth be told- neither men or women can “spot reduce” (target one area and cut fat there), toning is an overall process. But you should train with weights three times a week, avoid excess beer, try not to smoke, and walk when you can.
ST
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