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Lee “SmoothTalker” Coles

Self Improvement: The Babe Whisperer Guest Blogging Again

I’ve been kindly asked by Lincoln Nguyen to guest blog over at the lifestyle and self-improvement site Scroll And Gun.

http://www.scrollandgun.com/

Stay tuned.

Lee “SmoothTalker” Coles, AKA The Babe Whisperer

How to Pickup Women: Tips From Mens’ Rights Organization

More clues for the clueless:

http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2010/02/01/style-tips-from-mens-rights-activist/#more-8663

Mr. Right, or Mr. Right Now: Does Lori Gottlieb’s “Marry Him” Get Successful Single Women Wrong?

Most of my clients are either professionals or students in major metropolitan areas like D.C., Boston and New York. Their hangouts and clubs of choice are thus frequented by students, or white collar women. Lori Gottlieb’s Marry Him is the latest singles bible aimed at that demographic. But does Gottlieb get it wrong?

 http://www.slate.com/id/2243179/

Information is power, regardless of the woman’s relationship goals (we all have to live in the here and now, whilst “looking”)

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Lee “SmoothTalker” Coles, AKA The Babe Whisperer

PullJoy©’s Ten Most Beautiful Women (Celebs) Of All Time

Beauty is not only skin deep, it’s subjective. The Romans said De gustibus non est disputandum (roughly “there’s no accounting for taste”). Well, the whole point of this blog, and my workshops and individual consultation, is to help men become more socially comfortable in the presence of beautiful women. No matter one’s opinion or preferences, it has always helped me to know what one is fighting for, so to speak.

With that in mind, here are some of the most lovely ladies who have ever graced the public consciousness (in no particular order):

Sophia Loren

Rudi Bakhtiar

Kim Novak

Gina Gershon

Sally Richardson

Liz Taylor

Racquel Welch

Gina Lollabrigida

Taral Hicks

Barbara Eden

LC

Why Some Women Are Attracted to “Spoken For” Guys

Why is it easier to get a job when you already have one? Why, perceived value of course. Does the same hold true in attraction and seduction? For some women it does:

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articleglamour.aspx?cp-documentid=12137777&GT1=32023

Live The Dream,

Lee “SmoothTalker” Coles, AKA The Babe Whisperer

Why Men Love “Taken” Women: Birddogging or Guilt Tripping?

One man’s story of how friendly or flirtatious conversation can lead to makeout sessions- with babes who have boyfriends:

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articleglamourmatch.aspx?cp-documentid=23187787&GT1=32023

LC

PullJoy© to Guest Blog (Again) at Sexblogger.com

I’ll be bringing back my newsletter soon, as a bi-monthly feature at http://www.sexblogger.com/

Stay tuned, Smooth Nation.

Lee “SmoothTalker” Coles, AKA The Babe Whisperer

Eros on Chemistry vis-a-vis Seduction

We value the opinions and observations of  fellow pickup artists and dating coaches here at PullJoy©. Here, our colleague Eros schools us on sexual chemistry as a tool of seduction:

Seducing Women – How to Build Sexual Chemistry

Today I would like to talk about building sexual chemistry and how
desperation can kill excitement and pent up sexual tension. A common
mistake that many guys make which coincidentally repels women from the
desired effect they want to have is that guys are all too eager to
escalate to sex before any kind of anticipation is created. As guys we
tend to have one-track minds when it comes to females and all that leads
up to sex is just the obligatory hoopla of dating and listening to her
life stories. Well, I have some shocking news for you. Great sex starts
way before you get her into bed. You see women thrive on a combination of
two things, 1) anticipation and 2) (sexual) tension. During the initial
phases of getting to know her better and enjoying time spent together on
those first few dates hopefully if you’ve done your job well you’ll have
given her a lot to think about.

The reason for guys being so eager to get women into the bedroom so fast
and skipping or trying to skip the necessary steps to making a woman feel
a powerful connection to you, is that guys have a limiting belief that sex
is “getting lucky”. To think that bromide is true is allowing women to
hold a monopoly over you. Women like a man to take control rather than
throw a guy a bone here and there to cater to her whims. If you don’t
spend time exploring a woman’s mind and learn how to seduce her by teasing
her into making the moves on you then you’ll be missing out on the
potential level of devotion sexually and spiritually she has for you.

The solution to this problem is simple. Relax, take your time and allow
sexual chemistry to build by showing sexual interest toward her gradually
through your body language, intentional and deliberate glances, sensual
and affectionate touching and allowing her to become comfortable with you
in close proximity to her. You can anchor positive emotions in her by
using touch to emphasize words you want her to hear and anchor feelings of
a powerful connection with you by touching, holding and kissing her at
times that her excitement is heightened which will build a strong and
lasting chemistry.

A master of seduction knows
http://www.secretsinseduction.com/How-to-approach-a-girl/how-to-approach-a-girl.html” how
to approach a girl. He knows that seducing women is a seduction of her
mind. Stimulating and provoking emotions in her head so when you aren’t
together she should be thinking about you and as these feelings manifest
her attraction toward you will become more powerful and long-lasting as
she will feel a superior attraction to you which she is likely to of never
felt before for any other guy.

If this article was of any help to you please visit my site where there
are plenty of articles written by the worlds leading pick up artists on
how to seduce women and be sure to sign up for my newsletter.
Best Wishes,

Eros
Secretsinseduction.com

Eros Of “Secrets In Seduction” on Social Confidence

Guest blogger Eros weighs in on social confidence:

How to Approach Women – Social Confidence

So, what is social proofing? Social proofing, in its basic sense, is being
accepted and/or liked socially by either a particular group of people, or
everybody.
This is important, particularly when you
http://www.secretsinseduction.com/How-to-approach-a-girl/how-to-approach-a-girl.html”
approach a girl or are approaching sets of two or more women. The way
social proofing works in theory is that, in most cases, being liked by
your targets friends, or strangers who may be influential, will increase
the likelihood your target will be attracted to you.

When you have displayed high social status she will believe that you are
popular and is more willing to give you a try. The way this essentially
works is that your target will feel that she can raise her status through
being in your company, which will make her feel better about herself,
associating those good feelings with you. This, of course, works to your
benefit. It’s easy to see when you have social proofing. Firstly, you will
know that you are popular through talking to a lot of people, or talking
to the high status people. People will be naturally drawn to you with
their body language and will often even approach you themselves, leaving
you having to do very little. This is why social proofing is such a
powerful tool.

Now, I’m sure you’re wondering how you can achieve this. How can you get
people to approach you? Well, the easiest way to do this is to behave like
you own the place, or environment you are in. I don’t mean you should pull
out your check book, walk up to the bar and demand to speak to the
proprietor with an offer. I mean you should act like you own the place.
Walk in the front and say to yourself “This is my house!” Claim ownership.
An extension of this is to go around asking everyone in the place, male or
female, attractive or not, if they’re having a good night, as the owner
would ask. Even if people don’t wonder if you’re the owner or not, they
will still wonder who you are.

Talk to a lot of people. Be social and create a positive atmosphere for
everyone. However, when you know you’re going to make an approach, things
can get a bit more specific. To have social proofing within a specific
group, approach the group leader, or the male. Work your way around the
group, taking the time to speak to all of them, so that everyone likes
you.

At first, your target will assume you know someone in the group, which
will immediately lower their guard. Even if they find out you don’t know
anyone in the group, they will have seen that you made an immediate
impression on everyone else and you will have social proofing. From there,
your target’s friends will actually help you. She will be looking to her
friends to find out if you are really a cool guy. If they think you are,
they will encourage her to hook up with you.

As you can see, social proofing is a valuable thing to have, so work on
getting this handled and you will see results.

Regards,

Eros
Secretsinseduction.com