When we remember those who truly love life (the essence of PullJoy), we recall not how they died, but how fully they lived:

http://edition.cnn.com/2008/SHOWBIZ/books/07/25/obit.pausch/index.html?iref=hpmostpop

One not only thinks of the long-ill Pausch, but the sudden death of NBC’s Tim Russert. Both savored this existence 24-7. This is no dress rehearsal fellas.

Live The Dream,

ST

Guys (and ladies), somebody down here likes us:

http://www.sheknowsbest.com/link-of-the-week-pulljoy-the-secrets-of-a-pickup-artist/

Live The Dream,

ST

Another in my Study The Master series for you guys. Note Connery’s movements, close-mouthed smile, posture, the look in his eyes, and his tone. I chose his interludes with Miss Moneypenny, of course, because being PullJoy© is about having fun, not hitting on women (very few of you knew that, until I said it). These clips will help demonstrate the difference (although, of course, you want panties). Focus on the first eight min. or so- the Connery 007’s- although the line George Lazenby feeds her at about 8:00 when she asks where he’s been is smooth:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jpRuM_Axmaw

A humorous, sexy banter is what you aspire to. How many of you cats picked up on Sean Connery’s light, playful touch w/ Lois Maxwell’s “Moneypenny”? A cheek, a hand, a lean…

Live The Dream,

ST

Peep the body language and the phrasing of his words:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-chWouJQflw

Did you catch the smile?

ST

How many of you guys would get a license that proves you’re STD free?

http://www.stfree.com/

ST

No sugar, no sugar britches. Here are some liplock tips from across the pond:

http://www.juicemag.co.uk/10-tips-for-perfect-kissing

ST

Television’s best drama is back:

http://www.cnn.com/2008/SHOWBIZ/TV/07/24/apontv.madmen.ap/

Smooth Nation, dig the male characters’ body language (particularly Emmy nominee and Golden Globe winner Jon Hamm as “Don Draper”), the sexy quips and double entendres, and the eye contact. No fanny pinching though, fellas.

Live The Dream,

ST

Take it from Raleigh hottie Jane P., courtesy of Be Better Guys:

www.bebetterguys.com/your-life/bbguests/bbgirl-jane-p.html

Leave the frat boy look for the unschooled.

ST

Want to meet a lot of pretty girls, in a fun, sexy atmosphere? Enroll in a salsa or merengue class at a night club or community center. Depending on where you live, most metropolitan areas have at least one club that plays Latin music, which offers lessons on slower weekday nights, or busy nights before the club fills up. There is no charge. You’ll probably grasp the basics. Almost all clubs where I’ve observed this activity have a salsa or merengue deejay that spins once class is over around 9 p.m.- so you and your new acquaintance can try out what you’ve been taught. You may attend more than one week- for various reasons. If your city is diverse enough that merengue is offered, I consider that more beginner-friendly than salsa- the foundation is merely a shift of weight from left foot to right. The more ambitious among you might take tango- it’s your choice, and each town has different options. But tango’s pretty deep to enroll in just to meet hotties (though if you’re the type that learns new dances with little difficulty- tango can really impress the opposite sex).

Community centers and adult courses mean there’s a fee. Still worth it guys. The bottom line is, if you can’t dance to tropical music, it’s an opportunity to both meet beautiful women, and add a skill many of them find attractive. If you’re already adept or at least know a few steps, you’ll stand out in the class, and still meet babes. They’re more nervous about their moves than you are about approaching new women.

Talk about a win-win!

Step to it, and step to them. For individual consultation, contact me at smooth.talker@live.com. I also that live in and around D.C. private consultation (approach, conversation, attire, body language- anything that concerns you).

ST

A genuine lust for life can be magnetic. When one is in the company of a fellow who savors the positive and pleasurable things this world has to offer, and takes not a second for granted, it heightens experiences. Babes love this quality. Few things put our careers, our concerns, or our relationships in perspective like a lively outlook. Ever see the type of husband in a sitcom or movie that says to his wife, “Aw, let the boy do it Marge- he won’t break!”- punctuated by a hearty laugh, or to his whole family, “Buckle up Winslow’s- we’re going to see America!”. That guy’s full of life, he’s appreciate of what he has. He is neither timid or retreating.

A vibrant, upbeat male attracts more women than one who focuses his conversation on work and current events. No one is enchanted by the mundane, and we don’t always enjoy being reminded of the headlines, or our paychecks. A character is memorable. When I chat up a few women seated together in a lounge or club, I don’t know right off who’s married or not. I don’t really hit on any one person, though I toss about an impromptu compliment or tasteful tease here or there:

None of you looks like you have to worry about dieting.

Yeah right, like you’re old enough to have a son that age.

I’m stoked on life when I engage- no matter how serious or silly the topic. I’m excited to meet them, hear how they met, and their opinions about women, men, movies, whatever. I treat them like real people, not babes I’m humoring until I can figure out which one wants to sex me. This wards off any tension, quells individual egoes, and brings them “out”. If other things develop, it’s because I’ve gained group approval.

This outlook eliminates approach anxiety, whether a babe’s alone or with a group. I’m just out enjoying myself, even in a place as innocuous as a bookstore or Whole Foods. Life is always a blast, it didn’t start when I noticed her. A sincerely happy guy will always encounter others who wish they were more like that. Who enjoy the vibe, the company, and the confidence. After all, everyone wants a reason to smile.

ST